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Benefits of Being Homeschooled

The Benefits of Being Homeschooled (and the week we FULLY took advantage of them)

Our family's life looks NOTHING like it did just a few years ago.  

I mean NOTHING.

We've gone from children in traditional school with mom staying home and dad going to an office 40+ hours a week,  to children being homeschooled, mom writing curriculum and running a blog, and dad being an IT consultant. 

We don't function on a traditional schedule or timetable. 

We're living more and more off the grid, and that feels more and more NORMAL. 

As my husband and I were talking about this, we came to the conclusion that homeschooling was the catalyst for ALL of this.

Taking that huge leap of faith six years ago has allowed everyone in our family to more fully realize their dreams.

Isn't that just AMAZING? 

You see, homeschooling is just not about "school at home".  It's about a lifestyle of being together, breaking free from many of society's norms (and schedules!) and NOT being in that hamster wheel that too often defines American families. 

This week, all of the benefits of homeschool really became crystal clear to me. As I look back on our week it makes me smile to see the ways homeschooling has blessed our family.

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This month's featured resource is Teaching From Rest by Sarah Mackenzie. I'm reading this book in preparation for next year and it is inspiring and equipping me! 

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Pursuing a Skill With the Goal of Excellence

Benefits of Being Homeschooled (and the week we FULLY took advantage of them)

 

I remember well the STRUGGLE it was to get my daughter to practice piano when she was in public school.

She loved music, but she was just DONE at the end of a school day. That bus would drop her off at 3:30 and she was worn out. There was little time left for her to pursue what really mattered to her. 

Homeschooling eliminated that struggle. 

 Both of the children now play piano. It is a PRIORITY that practicing happens. We explain to them that we invest time and money in this skill, and if they stick with it, they will have a lifelong knowledge and enjoyment of music.  They can use their talents to make others happy and to bring themselves enjoyment, too. 

Music is important to us, and I believe we can pursue it deeply and passionately because we have the TIME. 

{What is it that interests your kids? Do you see how deeply they can pursue that interest because they are given time and space?}

Mother's Day was such a gift to me because it was the kids' piano recital. I was such a happy mama.  I could care less if they are virtuosos, what I care about is the perseverance and commitment they are learning through honing a skill. 

(Uploading videos because these #CollageFriday posts serve as my scrapbook - and record of our learning. I look back on several years of these Friday posts and am so glad I've kept track of everything we're up to!)


Benefits of Being Homeschooled (and the week we FULLY took advantage of them)

Standardized Testing Week = NO BIG DEAL!

Another benefit of homeschooling is that we don't have to teach to or emphasize a dumb test. 

The longer I'm away from public schools, the more ASININE these tests seem to me. 

And, when I hear kids talk about the total fuss that is made over them in schools, it just makes me sad. 

Did you eat a good breakfast?  (shouldn't we do that EVERY day)

Do you have your #2 pencils and is everything bubbled in completely?

Our children took the Stanford 10 (through Classical Conversations) for two mornings this week. We didn't make a big deal out of it, and they said everything went just fine. 

The kids needed scrap paper for the testing, so I packed some fun notebooks from DaySpring for them. (A little encouragement from God on a standardized test could be quite helpful - ha!) 

While the kids were testing I worked, ran errands, and even READ FOR PLEASURE. 

The comment of the week (from Grant):  

"You know, the social sciences portion of that test was weird.

It seemed like only things the government would want you to know."  

That's my boy. 

We didn't do any other school this week other than testing. Grant enjoyed a fun afternoon with a friend who lives very close to us. Both boys had a taste of freedom because we let them ride bikes to and from each other's houses. They did all by themselves and then enjoyed an afternoon of Minecraft! 

I'm pretty sure we could sell most kids on standardized tests if we told them they could have the week off of school and play Minecraft, don't you? 

Black Top Basketball with LEGO® Education StoryStarter curriculum

 

Learning With LEGO® Education

My son has become immersed in all things LEGO over the past several years. 

I'm SO thankful we discovered LEGO® Education and can use many of their products in our homeschool. 

This week, Grant has been using the StoryStarter curriculum to narrate Treasure Island to me. We listen to a bit of the story together, and then I ask him to build his favorite scene. (In one of the photos below you will see Jim hiding in the apple barrel listening to Long John Silver and his terrible plans!)

The other pictures show a basketball arena Grant created, complete with announcer and a game going on. Using the curriculum, I prompted him to build a sports stadium of any kind, and after he built he used the StoryStarter Story Visualizer software to create a commentary of the game -- which he called "Black Top Basketball".

 Click here to see his PDF creation! 

A HUGE benefit to homeschooling is that I have learned right alongside my children. When I observed how much Grant loved LEGOS, I wanted to do everything I could to learn more about them, and also blog about that, too. 

Little did I know I would eventually be blogging for LEGO® Education and speaking on behalf of them at a homeschool convention.

How FUN is that?   

This week I have been busy preparing to be the facilitator of a StoryStarter workshop at FPEA, which is held in Orlando next weekend. 

Benefits of Being Homeschooled (and the week we FULLY took advantage of them)

Benefits of Being Homeschooled (and the week we FULLY took advantage of them)

The Beach With a Buddy

It's great to go the beach when most kids are still in school! 

Grant's super good friend invited him on a spur of the moment beach trip at the end of the week. 

This is the first time Grant has been gone from us (without his sister) for more than one night. I'm so happy he has this time to make memories with his friend! 

A HUGE benefit of homeschooling is vacationing during off-peak times and sometimes taking school on the road with you. 

Another benefit of homeschooling is the time our children have to cultivate friendships, and having their parents around to help them navigate how to successfully cultivate those friendships, too.  

I am most thankful I can guide my children through heart issues with friends, and that they have friends whose parents share our goals and values. 

(In the mean time, we get to enjoy a weekend with just Anna, which is very rare. This is her big children's chorus concert weekend - 3 performances in 3 days, which is always very fun, but VERY exhausting! )

 

I could go on and on about the benefits of homeschooling - but I have a feeling this post has been LONG ENOUGH.  

Have you noticed the benefits of homeschooling? What are they? 


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Why in the World Would You Homeschool Your Children?

Why in the World Would You Homeschool Your Children?  Five Reasons You Should Teach Your Children at Home

"Why in the world would you homeschool your children?"

I understand the question. I really do. 

In fact, this was a question I  uttered many years ago - although I think it went something like, "Why in the world would THEY want to homeschool their children? I could NEVER do that." 

Ha. Life can be quite ironic. (Remember, we abandoned the public schools in 2009).

People criticize what they do not understand, therefore homeschooling receives A LOT of criticism!  And sometimes, it's not criticism, it's simply curiosity. 

I don't take offense when someone makes a critical (or curious!) statement about homeschooling , but I do consider it part of my role as a homeschool ambassador to dispel the myths and also preach the BENEFITS of homeschooling.

While our family homeschools for SO MANY reasons, perhaps if I give you our top five it will aid you in your ambassadorship - or perhaps in your decision to begin homeschooling your own children. 

And I want you to know -- if I can homeschool, I know YOU CAN, too! 

 


5 Reasons You Should Homeschool Your Children

Normally, the word CONTROL has negative connotations, but when it comes to the shaping of our children's hearts and minds CONTROL is absolutely necessary. 

Reason to Homeschool: Control

I spent countless hours on the phone with school board members, meeting with administrators, and contacting our state Department of Education when they raised my daughter's public school class size to 25. I was going through every appropriate channel to express my discontent and find out the reasoning behind this decision. 

Then, there was the time I had to actually request permission for my daughter to check out books from the school library that were above her grade level. 

Or, once I went to bat so the children could actually TALK in the lunch room. 

(I have lots of these stories for you, believe me.)

Now that we homeschool I don't have any of those worries. I control the class size, school situation, curriculum, and a million other things. 

I remember a very sweet woman at church saying to me (in kind of a sarcastic tone).... "You just had to have control over her education, didn't you?"

Well yes, I did.  And I make NO APOLOGIES for wanting that control over my young child's day. 

(Once I read  For The Children's Sake - given to me by the only homeschooling mom I knew at the time - I was SOLD on homeschooling. I HIGHLY recommend this book! )


Reason to Homeschool: Safety

Perhaps I'm a bit jaded, but after working in a public elementary school that was locked down while an escaped convict ran through the hallways and also working in a school system where a mentally ill man walked into the lobby of an elementary school and attacked several young children, I didn't want to be concerned for my children's safety on a daily basis.

My oldest was born shortly after the attack at Columbine. 

In this day and age, I want to know WHO has access to my children and that their environment is safe and protected. 

I didn't want my children to go to a school and sit through bomb threats, lock downs, and tornado drills.  

I also want to be sure the adults my child spends the bulk of their day with adults who have their best interest at heart. 

Call me protective? Thank you - I consider it a compliment. 

I make no apologies when it comes to protecting my children. 

 


Reason to Homeschool: FREEDOM

When you homeschool you are not a slave to the school "schedule". 

If you want to take a field trip that is 2 hours away, you can just DO IT. 

If you don't like a particular science curriculum (I was beginning to have huge problems with the teaching of ONLY evolution in our public schools), you can change curriculums. 

We are free to PRAY before a mock trial competition -- OPENLY! 

If your grandmother is very ill, you are free to go and be with her for however long need be -- and I guarantee you it will be of greater value than any "schoolwork" you could have been doing.   

If you don't understand a math concept you can STOP and pause on that concept until you MASTER it. 

If you are very interested in something... maybe it's horses or music or LEGOS;  you are FREE to pursue that to your heart's content, much as you would in the REAL WORLD when you are an adult! 

Now that's we've experienced the freedom of homeschooling for so long, I'm pretty sure it would be VERY difficult to return to a traditional school setting. 

And truthfully, that FREEDOM of ideas and thinking is what our world needs. 

A wonderful homeschool primer is Educating The Wholehearted Child. This is another MUST HAVE resource if you are homeschooling (or contemplating homeschooling) your children. 


We are only giving a limited amount of TIME on this earth, and homeschooling helps us to be good stewards of that time. 

Honestly, when we started homeschooling I thought I would experience a huge LACK of time... because I was still living in a very selfish mode. I thought I would lose time to myself, time to clean my house, time to pursue my interests, and time without my children. 

I was so very wrong. Not only are we seizing every moment with our children (who will all too soon be grown and gone), but we are also avoiding the WASTING of time. 

Reason to Homeschool: TIME

Homeschooled kids don't wait in lines to get their lunch. 

They don't wait for the very last child to finish their test. 

They don't wait while a teacher has to discipline a group of rowdy children. 

Instead, they are giving the gift of TIME.

Time to cuddle with mom and read books on a chilly morning by the fire.

Time to perfect that cursive they've so desperately wanted to learn.

Time to STOP and serve a family in need. 

Time to forge a deep bond with their siblings. 

 

Time to MASTER a concept rather than simply regurgitate it for a standardized test. 

Time to sleep in when their teenage bodies just need REST. 

Time to contemplate BIG ideas without unnecessary peer pressure. 

( The list could go on and on.....  )

One of my NEW favorite resources is Teaching from Rest, by Sarah Mackenzie... if you really want to know how to make the most of your TIME with your children, her book and audio companion are invaluable.  


 

The final benefit of homeschool is difficult to put into words. 

Reason to Homeschool: HEART

I homeschool my children because I want a front row seat in the development of their heart. I believe that through homeschooling their hearts are allowed to develop under careful, supervised guidance. 

I believe God called me to homeschool my children, plain and simple.  

Sometimes kids' hearts are tricky things (especially in the teen years), but it's such a benefit of homeschooling that we get to STOP whatever we are doing to train and guide that heart, or to give that heart care when it is broken. 

We can guide our children carefully through making (and keeping) friends. We can guide them through appropriate ways to treat others' hearts, and we can impart to them that their hearts are THE MOST IMPORTANT thing about them. 

 

 

What good is a 4.0 GPA, all the friends in the world, or a wall full of accolades if our children don't know that their HEARTS (and the hears of others) come FIRST?

I love so many of  Charlotte Mason's writings on home education - they are what first attracted me to homeschooling. The following quote is especially meaningful when we think about our children's hearts, and the environment in which they will spend their most formative years: 

Why in The World Would You Homeschool Your Children?  Reason #5: Their Heart

I'd love to know... what are your top reasons for homeschooling? Care to share a story about how your family came to homeschooling?  Let's start a discussion in the comments below!

 


This post is part of the iHomeschool Network's Why We Chose to Homeschool. Several of my blogging friends are also tackling this same subject, so pay them a visit by clicking the image below! 

Why We Chose to Homeschool