Why can't we just let children be CHILDREN?
Why can't we just let them be little?
My heart sank this week as I read about a kindergarten gun control walkout in Connecticut.
What has the world come to when we use five and six-year-old children as political pawns?
Have we become so SELFISH that we are willing to sacrifice our precious children on the altar of "making a point"?
It appears so.
The irony in this is that the more we remove "childhood" from our children's lives, the less capable adults they will become. When we force our children to bypass childhood we fail to realize the detrimental effects this will have on them in later life.
Parents are fooling themselves if they believe schools are going to preserve and nurture childhood.
I was once among a large number of trusting parents who believed the public schools had my children's best interest at heart - or maybe I should simply say the interests of the public schools are misguided. As I watched my kindergarten student participate in "Just Say No" week (the anti-drug campaign) - when she had no idea of what drugs even were, I wondered why political agendas were part of her school day.
I was so conditioned to just ACCEPT these things as part of the public school's duty to children. I didn't question what the public schools did. They were the AUTHORITY on education. We just sent our children to school - the teachers had their job and I had mine.
Then one day I started getting an uneasy feeling about all of this. A friend loaned me some homeschooling books. The principal at my child's school didn't appreciate me asking so many questions about the WHYS of what they did. The idea of homeschooling began to take a foothold in my mind.
Finally, we abandoned the ideal of public school and decided to just let our children be LITTLE.
Three Ways Homeschooling Lets Our Children Be LITTLE
Homeschooling gives children time to discover the world.
Children learn best through DISCOVERY.
Plopping them in a sterile environment with worksheets and prescribed activities leaves no time for a child to explore and wonder.
If we are trying to teach our children about birds - and most of all, how to APPRECIATE THE BEAUTY of birds - setting up a bird feeder and observing beautiful birds is of much more value than reading about birds in a textbook. As small children are going about their daily work of PLAYING, they may stop at intervals to admire the birds at the feeder. They will ask their mother, "What bird is this?", which can lead to discovery, which makes a memory, which then cements that knowledge.
A no-twaddle bird study put together by the parent is of infinite value and allows our children to learn in an unrestricted environment. It challenges them to learn more, builds an appreciation of all things beautiful, and serves as a building block in a lifetime of knowledge of the natural world around them.
Giving our children permission to indulge in these things is a gift.
Homeschooling gives children time with their parents and siblings.
How very old-fashioned and un-evolved of me to suggest children should be home with their mother (or father) all day!
It certainly isn't in vogue to suggest the family be the primary unit of socialization and support, is it?
I have seen first-hand how happy and healthy children are when they have the security and being with family all day. Time with family builds security, self-confidence, and happiness.
This time at home with parents and siblings allows our children the space they need to PLAY, EXPLORE, and LEARN.
How much more valuable is a walk in the neighborhood with the family than sitting through a "Just Say No to Drugs" presentation?
We love to use the buzz words "quality time", but I would argue that TIME with our children is important - not just set aside time we deem as "quality", but giving all of our time to our children in their youngest years.
I cannot measure the learning that took place on our walks (especially in the fall) when my children were young. I look back on this now and am so thankful we just LET THEM BE LITTLE!
Jump in leaf piles. Get muddy. Collect bugs. Play make-believe baseball games by yourself in the backyard. Snuggle with mom.
Homeschooling Preserve A Child's Innocence
But they will have to function in the "real" world one day, so why are you sheltering them now?
Isn't this the most tired argument you have heard? I grow weary of hearing people say this.
I am, however, long past caring what others think about the way we educate our children.
Am I going to protect and shelter my children? YOU BET!
Elementary age children have no business:
- worrying during active shooter drills
- taking part in sex education
- participating in political agendas
- and a myriad of other things!
Childhood is virtually passed over when a child takes on so many things they aren't emotionally or physically capable of handling.
I vividly recall a day when my child was in third grade (our last year in the public schools) - there was an escaped convict on the loose in our area. They were searching cars on the main road near our home. The elementary school was locked down. I remember being so concerned about my daughter that day - I knew she would worry.
Wouldn't it have been so much easier to have had her at home - safely in my care with our doors locked and her being none the wiser - than subjecting her to worry?
I will fight tooth and nail to preserve my children's childhood and to LET THEM BE LITTLE.
If you are interested in more homeschool encouragement, please visit the page I have dedicated to that subject.
It is important to let our children be LITTLE. We owe it to them, and ultimately our society will benefit if we give our children everything they need and deserve in their younger years.
My greatest desire is to equip and encourage you in the homeschool journey. Please leave me a comment if I can help you in any way!