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A Bookish Update

“Books are the quietest and most constant of friends; they are the most accessible and wisest of counselors, and the most patient of teachers.” ~Charles William Eliot

This is my relationship with books.

My love affair with books has burned slowly over the past few years, and I believe this year it has culminated into a roaring fire - a healthy (albeit all consuming) hobby.

My goal is to read widely, carefully, and out of my comfort zone.

I read to better educate myself and my children.

What I didn’t realize was just what a balm reading would be for my soul - the soul of a mom who is readying children for college, caring for aging parents, and sometimes feeling that escaping into a book might just be the very best part of the day.

A Bookish Update - The Reading Life of a Homeschooling Mom

Can you relate?

When last I left you with a bookish update it was the Quarterly Reading Update. I had read many books I enjoyed - and a couple that reached me in profound ways.

I’ll give you my highlights since then, and a fun reading project I have set for myself this fall.

No matter how you slice it - I’d Rather Be Reading!


Books for Mom

Following are the books I’ve read since the last update.

My five must reads out of this list are:

Small Great Things: A NovelThe 49th Mystic (Beyond the Circle)A Place for Us: A NovelLabor Day: A Novel (P.S.)Mark of the Lion : A Voice in the Wind, An Echo in the Darkness, As Sure As the Dawn (Vol 1-3)Crazy Rich Asians (Crazy Rich Asians Trilogy)The Handmaid's TaleThe Widows of Malabar Hill (A Mystery of 1920s India)Garden Spells: A Novel (Waverly Family)Same Kind of Different As MeThat Kind of Mother: A NovelI Am, I Am, I Am: Seventeen Brushes with DeathA Well-Tempered Heart (Art of Hearing Heartbeats)The Storied Life of A. J. Fikry: A NovelA Practical Guide to Culture: Helping the Next Generation Navigate Today’s WorldI'll Be Your Blue Sky: A NovelThe Almost Sisters: A NovelThe Great Alone: A NovelAn Unquiet Mind: A Memoir of Moods and MadnessThe Road Back to You: An Enneagram Journey to Self-DiscoveryLittle Fires EverywhereThe Mothers: A NovelThe Beach HouseA Tree Grows in Brooklyn (Modern Classics)The Stolen Marriage: A NovelTruly Madly GuiltyUnwritten: A NovelWhat I Saw And How I LiedMy Name Is Lucy Barton: A NovelAn American Marriage: A Novel (Oprah's Book Club 2018 Selection)Bel CantoEleanor Oliphant Is Completely Fine: A NovelHome Fire: A NovelThrush Green (Thrush Green Series, Book 1)Winter in Thrush Green (Thrush Green, Book 2)Beartown: A NovelTell Me More: Stories About the 12 Hardest Things I'm Learning to SayStay with Me: A novelThe Read-Aloud Family: Making Meaningful and Lasting Connections with Your KidsLilli de Jong: A NovelEvery Note PlayedWhere You Go Is Not Who You'll Be: An Antidote to the College Admissions ManiaMalagash

 


Reading Aloud with Teens


I take such joy in reading aloud - thanks to The Read Aloud Family I have plenty of suggestions!

Reading with older children can be fun, too. It creates a shared time and experience that is of such value in the teen years.

Please don’t give up on reading aloud to them once your children are older. They need it then more than ever!

I heartily recommend each one of these titles!

A Long Walk to Water: Based on a True StoryListening for LionsPeter Nimble and His Fantastic EyesBreaking Stalin's NoseThe Great Trouble: A Mystery of London, the Blue Death, and a Boy Called EelOkay for NowThe WilloughbysThe Graveyard Book

 


Reading for Fall

This fall I have a fun project - I have recently acquired some of the Puffin in Bloom classics. At the same time, two other books have found their way to me - books that will pair perfectly with the Little Women and Anne of Green Gables. I can’t wait to revisit these classics from my childhood, and then read the contemporary books to go with them!

All of this was inspired through a visit to meet Anne Bogel at The Story Shop in Monroe, GA - if you’re ever in the Atlanta area and have a chance to visit this bookstore, you MUST!

Little Women (Puffin in Bloom)Anne of Green Gables (Puffin in Bloom)Meg, Jo, Beth, Amy: The Story of Little Women and Why It Still MattersAnne of Green Gables, My Daughter, and Me: What My Favorite Book Taught Me about Grace, Belonging, and the Orphan in Us All

 


Until next time - enjoy all the books!

What have you read recently that you can recommend to me? Leave me a comment below and I’ll add them to my list!

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Favorite Read Alouds for Teen Boys

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Favorite Read Alouds for Teen Boys

Be honest. Reading aloud is something we think most teen boys are NOT going to enjoy.

I'm here to tell you they ARE and that it is IMPORTANT to continue to read aloud to our boys as they enter their teen years. 

Especially if you homeschool, I don't want you to miss tending to your teen's heart - and reading aloud is the perfect way to make connections, spark conversation, and simply spend time together.

Reading aloud is also one of many ways I'm fighting for my son's heart - and it's turning out to be such a blessing.

Favorite Read Alouds for Teen Boys

I'm sure you've had that magical read-aloud moment, haven't you? The one when a fabulous connection is made, or when everyone is laughing out loud and you look around and realize how wonderful this time you are sharing together is.

Those moments matter. They seem to matter MORE as our children age, because we realize they are precious few. 

Read-aloud to your teen boys. You won't be sorry you did!


Parnassus Books in Nashville, TN -- I love searching out lovely bookstores to find recommendations for read-alouds!

Parnassus Books in Nashville, TN -- I love searching out lovely bookstores to find recommendations for read-alouds!

How to Encourage Reading Aloud

I've had to be intentional about reading aloud. From carving out the time to researching and choosing engaging books, it's been an investment well worth making. 

  • Set a time each day to read aloud.  We read aloud each morning during breakfast. It's a way to ease into the day - the house is quiet and there is something conducive about early morning and reading.
  • Make reading aloud a team effort. My son and I take turns reading aloud. He's a bit of a goof (as am I!) and we love reading books where we can use our best voices and ham it up. When my son reads aloud it is also a good chance for me to train him in his speaking habits. (If you have younger children in the house perhaps your teen can read aloud to them.)
  • Give your teen a choice of books and play to their interests. I have a few stacks of books (that I have already researched) and allow my son to choose which books we will read. I've included books that I know will interest him - based on his current obsession. Ownership is huge at this age! Don't be afraid to include some "meaty" books, too - we tackled The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn last year and my guy loved it! Include biographies, fiction and nonfiction, and other genres, too.
  • It's all about the food. Yes, I know, this is bribery. But it works. Food is my son's love language, so if there is a steady supply of food the read-aloud time goes well. I have lots of different breakfast foods on hand - when the kids were younger I always had some fun snack that was just for read-aloud time.
  • Model reading. You know I'm a HUGE reader, as is my husband. Reading is a lifestyle, so it isn't anything out of the ordinary to sit down and read a book together.
Our current stack of read-alouds!

Our current stack of read-alouds!


Included below are many of the books that have been a HIT in our house, including some that are in the TBR (to be read) stack as well.  There are probably a bazillion more titles that would captivate your teen boy; these are just a few to get you started.

I hope you find some books that bless your time with your teenage son. 

I'm cheering you on! 

Oh -- and here's my teen boy in case you were wondering. He's now 6'2" and eats like a horse (sometimes we read aloud with donuts!). 

Favorite Read Alouds for Teen Boys

 

Do you read aloud to your teen boy? Is there a book you can add to our list? Leave it in the comments below!
 

The Wednesday WarsOkay for NowPeter Nimble and His Fantastic EyesThe Giver Quartet boxed setA Long Walk to Water: Based on a True StoryThe Great Trouble: A Mystery of London, the Blue Death, and a Boy Called EelListening for LionsFearfully and Wonderfully MadePaul Brand: Helping Hands (Christian Heroes: Then & Now)Nate Saint: On a Wing and a Prayer (Christian Heroes: Then & Now) (Christian Heroes: Then and Now)Jefferson's Sons: A Founding Father’s Secret ChildrenWords in the DustBreaking Stalin's NoseBabe & Me: A Baseball Card AdventureRocket Boys (The Coalwood Series #1)A Land of Permanent GoodbyesHomeless BirdThe Rise and Fall of Mount MajesticAdventures of Huckleberry FinnThe Hiding PlaceThe Librarian of Auschwitz