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3 Keys to a Successful Homeschool

Everyone wants their homeschool to be successful. 

We want our children to be excited and eager learners, learning things of value, and for our families to be happy and healthy through it all.  (I'll tell you a secret, though - you may have this some of the time, but some of the time it might just be plain old HARD WORK.)

As we've dabbled in different curricula, methods, and schedules, I've learned that there really are just THREE key ingredients to a {mostly} successful homeschool.

3 Keys to a Successful Homeschool

 

Beauty

Beauty is so often overlooked as we are planning our children's education. We become so busy checking off boxes and forget to nurture a love and appreciation for beauty in our children's lives - as well as our own. 

The object of education is to teach us to love what is beautiful.
— Plato, The Republic

 

Questions to ponder:

  • Are you constantly pointing your children to the Creator, the source of all beauty?
  • Are you including an appreciation of fine arts in your children's days?
  • Are you asking your children to recognize and document things of beauty (nature sketchbooks, art & music journals, etc...)?
  • Is your home full of beautiful things? Do you have prints of fine art hanging on the walls? Do you take time to cut fresh flowers and bring them indoors? Are you listening to Classical music?

Consistency

Children thrive on routine and structure. They crave predictability and safety. 

Homeschool requires CONSISTENCY! 

Consistency is a LIFE SKILL to be modeled for and taught to our children. Consistency is our daily tasks of living as well as in our homeschool methods is important.

Most often we need only look in the mirror to find the root of INCONSISTENCY in our homeschool. 

Questions to ponder:

  • Do you have a daily routine?  Some families (including mine!) don't do well with a strict schedule, but we have always had routine.
  • Do you start your day with Morning Time? (or some other way to gather your children and ground them for the day)
  • If you start a particular math or spelling program, do you stick with it long enough to see results - or do you jump ship the minute someone complains?
  • Are YOU exhibiting consistency in your own life so your children can model that? 

Minimalism

Not to be trite, but it is SO true: Less is More!

Do not let the endless succession of small things crowd great ideals out of sight and out of mind.
— Charlotte Mason

I once heard from a homeschool mom that she made ONE subject each year a priority. 

For example, if math was the priority for the year she made sure math was always done FIRST and that any enrichment first focused on math. Another year she chose Latin as the focus. Each year she achieved a laser focus in her homeschool by this singular focus.

Intriguing, yes?

I also believe minimalism should be followed in our homeschool environment. Are you materials organized neatly and only a few quality resources placed front and center? Sometimes too much choices causes children (and MAMAS) a lot of frustration.

When we decided to deepen our homeschool through simplification it was the beginning of a new era for us!

Questions to ponder:

  • When your children begin a school day, do they know where to find things? Is your homeschool area organized?
  • Do you challenge your children to focus on doing a few things well, rather than many things half-heartedly?
  • Do you have a few clear, achievable goals for your homeschool?

How to Build Your Child's Character Through Journaling

Charlotte Mason might refer to journaling along the lines of "oral composition" and you can flesh that out here.

What do I mean when I talk about journaling

Let's start with a definition so that we're all on the same page. (Don't you love a good pun?)

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Journaling is essentially a record of things. It can be driven by writing prompts, emotions your're experiencing, or it can be study specific.

For our purposes (we're using Easy Summer Planning, remember?) we are going to define journaling as keeping a record. That's easy, isn't it? Yes! But- we'll be recording more than facts. 

Now, let's lay down those rails.

 

Journaling as Research and Reasoning

With any writing endeavor, keeping a journal included, there comes reading and research. With this research comes reasoning. As children interact with the research, they use the information they have on hand (what they know), and are sometimes inspired to search for additional information (what they could know).

When we think of research, we tend to picture someone slumped over piles of books, looking for answers. We can call this search a quest for truth.

This aspect of journaling then provides two parts of a rail that build character. Diligence in the search and wisdom in distinguishing truth from error. By allowing our children the joy of searching the Scriptures as the foundation for all research and reasoning, we can further mold their character. Research grounded in truth brings wisdom.

Rail: Diligence in the search and wisdom in distinguishing truth from error.

Journaling as Relating

Once a student has gathered the facts and reasoned through them, they are called to make a decision. Note: this decision-making can also happen during the research and reasoning portion of journaling. But, it's true in either case that a decision is made on whether or not the fact studied applies to the topic at hand.

If your child is studying birds or music, they may begin with facts about the birds or information related to a composer or piece of music. They will have to make a determination if the facts at hand relate to the specific topic being studied.

This is an important process in becoming an independent learner.

For further example, let's say your student is studying a particular piece of music. During his study he comes upon information about a certain type of music written for a specific time period. The principles of music he may uncover that apply to one type of musical piece may not apply to another. He has to know when the information fits.

Journaling as relating can lay the rails of diligence, insightfulness, creativity, and logic.

Rail: Journaling as relating can lay the rails of diligence, insightfulness, creativity, and logic. 

Journaling as Recording

This is what most people think of when they think of keeping a journal, the actual writing and recording. But, it can be so much more than that. 

If we can think of journaling as recording not just what the student has learned, but as a way for the child to do the actual growing, we can begin to see just how much value it has. 

I think of this in terms of my own life - I have been keeping a reading journal, and as I look back through my books - where I have marked things that jump out at me - there is a lot of growth happening through my journaling. 

Consider a quote I journaled from A Well-Tempered Heart

How to Build Character Through Journaling

What a gift it is for our children to look back on their thoughts - what has had meaning to them - and how they have grown through their journaling.

The pages where the recording takes place are made of, in a sense, the blood, sweat, and tears of a child's growing in wisdom and stature. It's not a mere intellectual exercise. As she matures from childhood through her teens and into adulthood, so do her thoughts, her reasoning ability, and the depth of her entries.

This is such a privilege to witness as a mom. It's a true treasure. It lays down the all important rail of stick-to-it-iveness. And in life, few character traits serve us better than this one. 

Often in life our success is measured in our ability to hang on longer than anyone else. When this is healthy, it shows up as "getting the job done" and "going the extra mile" - qualities that show our character to the world. 

Rail: Journaling as recoding lays down the all important rail of stick-to-it-iveness. 

For Easy Summer Learning

These rails aren't difficult., but they are deep. They aren't complicated, but they do require commitment. But, this deep commitment will pay big dividends during your school year and during the rest of your student's life. 

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This post is part of the series Laying Down The Rails in Your Homeschool.